Patience
Potty training often begins around the age of 2, as many guides suggest that between 2 and 2.5 is an ideal time. However, it can be a frustrating process, especially when a child doesn’t take to using the potty right away. One important tip is to try to remain calm and patient. You can’t force a child to use the potty, and it's important that they don’t associate it with negativity. If a child isn’t ready, it’s okay. They’ll begin using the potty when they’re ready, and most children won’t want to go to school in nappies. If frustration builds, remember that every child develops at their own pace.
But how will I know when they are ready?
Age isn’t always the best guide for readiness. Instead, watch for signs like showing interest when you go to the bathroom, staying dry for longer periods, or expressing discomfort when their nappy is wet. Some children even begin telling you when they need to use the bathroom. Responding to these signs rather than dictating when potty training should begin can make the process smoother. Many parents choose to start potty training during the summer, when fewer clothes make for easier changes in case of accidents.
Introduce the Potty Early
Some parents introduce the potty from a very young age, even from birth, which helps children get familiar with it. Placing the potty in the bathroom and explaining its purpose can make a difference. Children learn by watching and copying, so if they see others using the toilet or potty, it can encourage them. Before beginning formal training, letting your child sit on the potty in their nappy helps them become used to the routine.
Training is Easier at Home
In the first few days of potty training, try to stay home or close to home. Inform any caregivers about the training so they can assist. If you must go out, bring the potty along and pack spare clothes and wipes to be prepared for accidents. Keeping a potty in multiple rooms can make it more convenient for the child when the urge strikes.
Reminders
It helps to remind your child to use the potty every half an hour or so during the initial stages of training.
Give Praise
Accidents are inevitable, so it’s important not to get frustrated. Instead, praise your child when they use the potty correctly. Positive reinforcement encourages them to continue. Some parents use reward charts where children earn stickers for successfully using the potty, turning the experience into a fun and motivating game.
Night-Time Training
Focus on daytime potty training before transitioning to nighttime. If the child’s nappy is only slightly wet in the morning, it might indicate readiness for night training. Encourage them to use the potty before bedtime and consider leaving a potty in their room in case they can’t reach the bathroom in time. A night light can help ease any fear of the dark. Waterproof mattress covers are also a good idea to manage nighttime accidents. Limiting fluids 30-45 minutes before bedtime can help, as children’s bladders are smaller than adults’.
